"The way we live in peace in a family, in a marriage, in the world, is not by threatening people, is not by showing off your muscles. It's by listening, by giving a hand sometimes, by being intelligent, by being open and by setting high standards."Yeah, as that will really help. If some nutjob is at my door telling me to convert to Islam or lose my head, I'm not inviting him in for milk and cookies and a nice, quiet chat....I'm going for Mr. Colt to administer Headache Cure #.45.
Also, I don't understand why someone who asks a question during a question and answer session can be called a "heckler".